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BF PROBLEMS,HELP!
I broke up with my bf today because he wouldnt stop buggin me for nude pics. I know everyone our age is having sex but im not ready and I don't want
that kind of stuff to be spread around, what if a teacher or a parent of a friend saw it it. GROSS! I sent him a callout card from a site called
thatsnotcool and broke it off.
What do you guys think? am I being silly?
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posted on 2-9-2009 at 03:30 PM
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Yes you're silly. Though dumping that guy was a smart move.
I'm too sexy for signatures.
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posted on 2-9-2009 at 05:31 PM
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No, you were right. That's harassment and you were right in leaving him.
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posted on 23-10-2009 at 09:00 PM
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Was he an online boyfriend? Because those tend to ask for nude pictures.
Al guys want to have sex, period. And yeah, lots of teenagers are having sex but there are plenty who aren't and there will always be plenty guys who
respect women enought to let them make that decision when they are ready and mature enough to do so. Same with pictures, if you feel that you are fine
with whatever consequences could result from giving them to him, then go for it.
Sounds like you weren't though. And sounds like he's kind of a sketchy guy.
So good job 
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posted on 24-10-2009 at 12:27 AM
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| Quote: | Originally posted by sarahh
Was he an online boyfriend? Because those tend to ask for nude pictures.
Al guys want to have sex, period. |
Every single girl I have ever been with, liked having sex a lot more than me.
I don't pursue sex. It tends to just happen.
Fact: Woman get more pleasure out of sex then men
The statistics on sanity are that one out of every four Americans is suffering from some form of mental illness. Think of your three best friends. If
they're okay, then it's you.
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posted on 24-10-2009 at 01:35 AM
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than, and I'm more like Andy.
I don't search for sex unless it's on redtube.
& I only do that because I like the anatomy of human beings. |: Where else can you stare at naked people? |:
UH. What else is there to say?
Well, that guy just wants to bang you it seems. & You already rid yourself of him, so what do you want us to tell you? |:
Beauty is something that you perceive as actions combined with behavior and mixed with lust, added by looks. <3.
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posted on 24-10-2009 at 04:59 AM
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| Quote: | Originally posted by andyflag
| Quote: | Originally posted by sarahh
Was he an online boyfriend? Because those tend to ask for nude pictures.
Al guys want to have sex, period. |
Every single girl I have ever been with, liked having sex a lot more than me.
I don't pursue sex. It tends to just happen.
Fact: Woman get more pleasure out of sex then men |
Sad sad truth 
"Tell me what you regard as your greatest strength, so I will know how best to undermine you; tell me of your greatest fear, so I will know which
I must force you to face; tell me what you cherish most, so I will know what to take from you; and tell me what you crave, so that I might deny
you..."
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posted on 24-10-2009 at 03:31 PM
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| Quote: | Originally posted by NM_156
| Quote: | Originally posted by andyflag
| Quote: | Originally posted by sarahh
Was he an online boyfriend? Because those tend to ask for nude pictures.
Al guys want to have sex, period. |
Every single girl I have ever been with, liked having sex a lot more than me.
I don't pursue sex. It tends to just happen.
Fact: Woman get more pleasure out of sex then men |
Sad sad truth |
i wasnt saying guys enjoy it more, i only meant that in my experience the majority of teenage boys will pressure/ask their girlfriend to have sex.
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NM_156
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posted on 24-10-2009 at 03:41 PM
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Asking for sex is stupid. It doesnt feel right.
Do people not like forplay anymore? I think its the best part personally.
"Tell me what you regard as your greatest strength, so I will know how best to undermine you; tell me of your greatest fear, so I will know which
I must force you to face; tell me what you cherish most, so I will know what to take from you; and tell me what you crave, so that I might deny
you..."
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posted on 24-10-2009 at 03:44 PM
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in terms of teen relationsips though,
it's very common, at least at my high school,
for girls to spend a lot of time saying no
again and again. it's just immaturity on the boy's part.
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NM_156
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posted on 24-10-2009 at 03:49 PM
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Nothings wrong with sex. If you want to take preventative measures to not get an std or a baby then take those precautions. Its not dangerous or
detrimental to have sex otherwise.
"Tell me what you regard as your greatest strength, so I will know how best to undermine you; tell me of your greatest fear, so I will know which
I must force you to face; tell me what you cherish most, so I will know what to take from you; and tell me what you crave, so that I might deny
you..."
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posted on 24-10-2009 at 04:10 PM
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| Quote: | Originally posted by NM_156
Nothings wrong with sex. If you want to take preventative measures to not get an std or a baby then take those precautions. Its not dangerous or
detrimental to have sex otherwise. |
that's not always true. there are emotional side effects and often it really effects the relaionship. personally, i really regret ever losing my
virginity. but it's up to everyone to decide what's best for them.
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NM_156
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posted on 24-10-2009 at 04:21 PM
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| Quote: | Originally posted by sarahh
| Quote: | Originally posted by NM_156
Nothings wrong with sex. If you want to take preventative measures to not get an std or a baby then take those precautions. Its not dangerous or
detrimental to have sex otherwise. |
that's not always true. there are emotional side effects and often it really effects the relaionship. personally, i really regret ever losing my
virginity. but it's up to everyone to decide what's best for them. |
Sex isnt the same for everyone. But normally everyone grows attached, in some way or another. But, it doesnt mean you cant have it unless your inlove.
"Tell me what you regard as your greatest strength, so I will know how best to undermine you; tell me of your greatest fear, so I will know which
I must force you to face; tell me what you cherish most, so I will know what to take from you; and tell me what you crave, so that I might deny
you..."
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posted on 24-10-2009 at 11:06 PM
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| Quote: | Originally posted by sarahh
Was he an online boyfriend? Because those tend to ask for nude pictures.
Al guys want to have sex, period. And yeah, lots of teenagers are having sex but there are plenty who aren't and there will always be plenty guys who
respect women enought to let them make that decision when they are ready and mature enough to do so. Same with pictures, if you feel that you are fine
with whatever consequences could result from giving them to him, then go for it.
Sounds like you weren't though. And sounds like he's kind of a sketchy guy.
So good job |
Bobby already said this but this isn't true. You're dealing with "boys" not men. I never pursue sex, my girlfriends always initiate. Their orgasms
are intense while mine are 5 seconds of happiness. If you're dealing with males who beg you for sex, they're either little kids, not someone you
should be with, or both. Stereotyping is wrong.
| Quote: | Originally posted by sarahh
in terms of teen relationsips though,
it's very common, at least at my high school,
for girls to spend a lot of time saying no
again and again. it's just immaturity on the boy's part. |
I suppose? But in all high schools where hormones are running wild and peer pressure is raging a lot of boys will act this way. I personally never
outright pushed for sex though. Most of my sexual experience is recent; most kids aren't mature enough to not only handle and prioritize sex, but to
practice it safely.
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posted on 25-10-2009 at 04:51 AM
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| Quote: | Originally posted by kevinq
| Quote: | Originally posted by sarahh
Was he an online boyfriend? Because those tend to ask for nude pictures.
Al guys want to have sex, period. And yeah, lots of teenagers are having sex but there are plenty who aren't and there will always be plenty guys who
respect women enought to let them make that decision when they are ready and mature enough to do so. Same with pictures, if you feel that you are fine
with whatever consequences could result from giving them to him, then go for it.
Sounds like you weren't though. And sounds like he's kind of a sketchy guy.
So good job |
Bobby already said this but this isn't true. You're dealing with "boys" not men. I never pursue sex, my girlfriends always initiate. Their orgasms
are intense while mine are 5 seconds of happiness. If you're dealing with males who beg you for sex, they're either little kids, not someone you
should be with, or both. Stereotyping is wrong.
| Quote: | Originally posted by sarahh
in terms of teen relationsips though,
it's very common, at least at my high school,
for girls to spend a lot of time saying no
again and again. it's just immaturity on the boy's part. |
I suppose? But in all high schools where hormones are running wild and peer pressure is raging a lot of boys will act this way. I personally never
outright pushed for sex though. Most of my sexual experience is recent; most kids aren't mature enough to not only handle and prioritize sex, but to
practice it safely. |
Kevin for 2012.
"Tell me what you regard as your greatest strength, so I will know how best to undermine you; tell me of your greatest fear, so I will know which
I must force you to face; tell me what you cherish most, so I will know what to take from you; and tell me what you crave, so that I might deny
you..."
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posted on 25-10-2009 at 05:00 AM
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| Quote: | Originally posted by NM_156
Kevin for 2012. |
Second this notion.
The statistics on sanity are that one out of every four Americans is suffering from some form of mental illness. Think of your three best friends. If
they're okay, then it's you.
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posted on 25-10-2009 at 05:14 AM
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Will for Vice President.
Bobby for first lady <3
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posted on 25-10-2009 at 03:22 PM
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| Quote: | Originally posted by kevinq
| Quote: | Originally posted by sarahh
Was he an online boyfriend? Because those tend to ask for nude pictures.
Al guys want to have sex, period. And yeah, lots of teenagers are having sex but there are plenty who aren't and there will always be plenty guys who
respect women enought to let them make that decision when they are ready and mature enough to do so. Same with pictures, if you feel that you are fine
with whatever consequences could result from giving them to him, then go for it.
Sounds like you weren't though. And sounds like he's kind of a sketchy guy.
So good job |
Bobby already said this but this isn't true. You're dealing with "boys" not men. I never pursue sex, my girlfriends always initiate. Their orgasms
are intense while mine are 5 seconds of happiness. If you're dealing with males who beg you for sex, they're either little kids, not someone you
should be with, or both. Stereotyping is wrong.
| Quote: | Originally posted by sarahh
in terms of teen relationsips though,
it's very common, at least at my high school,
for girls to spend a lot of time saying no
again and again. it's just immaturity on the boy's part. |
I suppose? But in all high schools where hormones are running wild and peer pressure is raging a lot of boys will act this way. I personally never
outright pushed for sex though. Most of my sexual experience is recent; most kids aren't mature enough to not only handle and prioritize sex, but to
practice it safely. |
obviously i'm dealing wth boys, not men, i'm fifteen lmao.
i'm trying to give her advice from a high school girl's perspective, seeing as that's what she is. And it's fairly easy to generalize teenage
BOYS, since they're under tremendous pressure to act similarly to their peers. And as for women enjoying it more- this isn't really true with high
school relationships. Unexperienced boys usually aren't as concerned as men are with pleasing their girlfriends. It tends to be a one way street
unfortunately lol.
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posted on 25-10-2009 at 07:47 PM
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| Quote: | Originally posted by kevinq
Will for Vice President.
Bobby for first lady <3 |
You just love to love me. 
The statistics on sanity are that one out of every four Americans is suffering from some form of mental illness. Think of your three best friends. If
they're okay, then it's you.
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posted on 25-10-2009 at 07:48 PM
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Like I said. Not ALL men/boys are like this. I didn't push for sex when I was fifteen. Hell, I wouldn't know what to do if I got it at that age.
Unfortunately, neither does a lot of other boys who had sex at that age. I'm not saying you're wrong, but you shouldn't generalize as some people
are in deed mature.
But all this brings me back... as to why I'm glad I graduated.
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posted on 25-10-2009 at 07:54 PM
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| Quote: | Originally posted by kevinq
But all this brings me back... as to why I'm glad I graduated. |
Never miss a beat to rub this in my face!
I'm pretty glad I myself never went to highschool to deal with that dramatic pressure.
The statistics on sanity are that one out of every four Americans is suffering from some form of mental illness. Think of your three best friends. If
they're okay, then it's you.
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posted on 25-10-2009 at 08:34 PM
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Lol I actually didn't mean it like that. I'm just glad I left. The kids are so dumb, ignorant, impulsive and impressionable I'm shocked how I
survived. It's mostly due to the subculture that tells them it's cool to underachieve, be "ghetto" and do nothing but smoke weed and fuck. You
lose a lot of good kids this way just because they're impressionable and give into peer pressure.
Thank Jesus/Allah/Buddha/Moses/Tom Cruise I got out of it!!!
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posted on 26-10-2009 at 07:20 PM
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| Quote: | Originally posted by kevinq
It's mostly due to the subculture that tells them it's cool to underachieve, be "ghetto" and do nothing but smoke weed and fuck. You lose a lot of
good kids this way just because they're impressionable and give into peer pressure.
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i completely agree with this, i've seen a lot of my friends succumb to the pressure. -sigh-
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posted on 9-4-2010 at 02:32 PM
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| Quote: | Originally posted by andyflag
| Quote: | Originally posted by NM_156
Kevin for 2012. |
Second this notion. |
Third.
MBLAQ <3 |
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