EMiLYs_ACOUSTiC_SUNSHiNE
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posted on 19-11-2009 at 01:21 AM
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guy friends. sweet&suck-ish.
okay, so i had this reeeeaaaally good guy friend. he was kind of the meanie to all these kids at school, but he was really nice to me. he was totally
annoying and a pain in my ass, but he was still my friend. he liked me a lot and i couldnt help but love every time he'd say, "em, you look really
pretty today" or "hey, lets catch a movie this weekend"
but he was different with his friends, obviously. but what guy isnt? anyway, we dont talk anymore and i have no idea why. last year, we were BEST
friends. during the summer, we lost touch but reconnected towards the end. and now...i just never see him. he's not in any of my classes, i never see
him at parties. we dont even have mutal friends, really. he doesnt IM me, or comment on my picture and i dont know, i just really miss him. but its
the kind of a weird missing. like a lot of people HATE him and dont understand how i could want him to be my friend, but i do. i do, i do, i do! and i
dont know what to do. its like, if i try to talk to him, he puts up a wall. like i'm the bad guy. i gave him a hug once, and said i miss seeing him,
but he just came up with a snarky remark like "well, lets keep it that way"
and its not like he gets all this female attention you know? like i figured he's WANT to be friends with me. do you guys think he'll come around
sometime? or should i just move on and forget our friendship.
sorry i wrote so much
xox
my whole life is a summer town<3
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Tabitha;;LovesEm;;Zombies
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posted on 19-11-2009 at 09:26 AM
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If you're wondering why you guys don't talk anymore.. Why don't you just ask him yourself. Go out of your way and call him or msg him and just
ask.
What's the worst thing that could happen? He could tell you honestly & say he doesn't want to talk anymore or he will help try and fix it.
But it never hurts to ask. : ]
lolwut?
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EMiLYs_ACOUSTiC_SUNSHiNE
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posted on 19-11-2009 at 07:53 PM
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that is very, very true. i should do that, actually. what do i have to lose?
now if i was only better at confrontations...
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kevinq
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posted on 19-11-2009 at 08:04 PM
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Just don't make it a big deal in your head. Leave him a text or something or just casually say "Hey whats up between us? You've been acting distant
lately."
It's possible he had feelings for you and saw they weren't going to lead anywhere. Or that he might have heard about you talking badly about him.
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EMiLYs_ACOUSTiC_SUNSHiNE
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posted on 20-11-2009 at 12:16 AM
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yeahh i should really ask him. but i always defended him. if someone said they hated him, i said he was nice once you got to know him. but its like,
he just moves on when there is something better, you know? like if there is a prettier girl to talk to, or someone funnier or more popular. i just
cant decide if he's worth it or not.
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kevinq
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posted on 20-11-2009 at 01:53 AM
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Doesn't hurt to ask anyway.
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EMiLYs_ACOUSTiC_SUNSHiNE
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posted on 20-11-2009 at 08:02 PM
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i love how today he said hi to me. IS HE ON CHATMAZE?! IS HE READING THIS!? or is he reading my mind..... :O
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andyflag
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posted on 22-11-2009 at 08:58 AM
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| Quote: | Originally posted by EMiLYs_ACOUSTiC_SUNSHiNE
i love how today he said hi to me. IS HE ON CHATMAZE?! IS HE READING THIS!? or is he reading my mind..... :O |
Maybe a mixture, he read your mind about posting it on chatmaze, and figured out the rest by coming on.
The statistics on sanity are that one out of every four Americans is suffering from some form of mental illness. Think of your three best friends. If
they're okay, then it's you.
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Brown_Eyed_Girl
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posted on 22-11-2009 at 03:59 PM
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I had the same issue. I was friends with someone for 8 years. We didn't talk all the time, but we'd email eachother about every 2 months. Then
last year around my birthday, the emails stopped all together. I tried to email him and he never emailed back. You think people would have common
courtesy to email you to tell you they no longer want to be friends. I found out that his myspace got hacked. Don't know if that went for the whole
computer being hacked(I thought maybe that's why he hadn't emailed)or it was just his myspace.
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EMiLYs_ACOUSTiC_SUNSHiNE
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posted on 22-11-2009 at 04:11 PM
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yeah, exactly. like he can't just cut me of altogether. it just doesnt make sense. but i was walking to class with one of our mutual friends (who is
a guy) and he came up to us and said hi to me and stuff. its like, he doesnt talk to me at all, but gets mad if i'm with other guys. he is totally
confusing.
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Brown_Eyed_Girl
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posted on 22-11-2009 at 07:46 PM
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Ah men.. why can't they come with their own set of instruction booklets? lol
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EMiLYs_ACOUSTiC_SUNSHiNE
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posted on 22-11-2009 at 08:56 PM
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lol soooo truee
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THE_Jay
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posted on 23-11-2009 at 02:28 AM
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Girls don't come with no instruction booklet that wouldn't be fare to us. Girls are just as hard to figure out if not harder.
Well do you want to talk about it?
Do you think you'd understand,
How things can get so fucked up
with such good, such good intentions
And if, if roofs turn to sky, held by the gravity of nothing
An ironic and literal making of a bed.
You can walk away, but there is a reason to stay.
They make bad bad jokes, it's okay not to laugh.
And for every push foward, you get the same fucking push back.
You had, you had nowhere to go
so you, so you found some place.
You had, you had nothing to say, you start lying.
What the fuck were you thinking?
I'm not sorry... I'd do it all again.
All the lines between hate, love, and revenge
It's just dead, it's dead, it's dead
Just dead feelings.
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Tabitha;;LovesEm;;Zombies
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posted on 23-11-2009 at 06:47 PM
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Man rules - http://mistupid.com/people/page026.htm
Its their instruction booklet 
lolwut?
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kevinq
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posted on 23-11-2009 at 07:06 PM
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WINNAR!!1
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Tabitha;;LovesEm;;Zombies
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posted on 23-11-2009 at 07:16 PM
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 i r winnar.
lolwut?
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posted on 24-11-2009 at 07:47 AM
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man's rule~~ it is cool.
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